core: use GHC 9.6.2 (#2641)

* Make it compiler with 9.6

Can be built with:

cabal build all -j --allow-newer=base --allow-newer=ghc-prim --allow-newer=template-haskell --allow-newer=bytestring --allow-newer=memory --allow-newer=cryptonite

Using ghc 9.6

It mostly runs afoul of https://github.com/ghc-proposals/ghc-proposals/blob/master/proposals/0366-no-ambiguous-field-access.rst

* compile with GHC 9.6.2: dependencies, imports, code

* update GHC version in CI

* update GHC version in desktop build scripts

* update simplexmq, sha256map.nix

* update compiler

* update simplexmq, direct-sqlcipher

* remove missing files from .cabal

* building on desktop

* mac build changes

* added version back

* building libffi from source

* update simplexmq

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Co-authored-by: Evgeny Poberezkin <2769109+epoberezkin@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Avently <7953703+avently@users.noreply.github.com>

src/Simplex/Chat/Store/Direct.hs

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 {-# LANGUAGE DuplicateRecordFields #-}
+{-# LANGUAGE OverloadedRecordDot #-}
 {-# LANGUAGE FlexibleContexts #-}
 {-# LANGUAGE LambdaCase #-}
 {-# LANGUAGE NamedFieldPuns #-}
@@ -7,6 +8,8 @@
 {-# LANGUAGE ScopedTypeVariables #-}
 {-# LANGUAGE TupleSections #-}
 
+{-# OPTIONS_GHC -fno-warn-ambiguous-fields #-}
+
 module Simplex.Chat.Store.Direct
   ( updateContact_,
     updateContactProfile_,
@@ -60,7 +63,9 @@ module Simplex.Chat.Store.Direct
   )
 where
 
+import Control.Monad
 import Control.Monad.Except
+import Control.Monad.IO.Class
 import Data.Either (rights)
 import Data.Functor (($>))
 import Data.Int (Int64)
@@ -424,7 +429,7 @@ createOrUpdateContactRequest db user@User {userId} userContactLinkId invId Profi
         ExceptT $
           maybeM getContactRequestByXContactId xContactId_ >>= \case
             Nothing -> createContactRequest
-            Just cr -> updateContactRequest cr $> Right (contactRequestId (cr :: UserContactRequest))
+            Just cr -> updateContactRequest cr $> Right cr.contactRequestId
       getContactRequest db user cReqId
     createContactRequest :: IO (Either StoreError Int64)
     createContactRequest = do